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This is so refreshing, like all of your works. Thankyou for this

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> some people take the metaphor “I am made up of many parts” too seriously and go mad.

How do you defend against this? Prioritize or weight the opinion of certain “people”/parts?

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I think the problem is that they get to excited about the possibilities and spend too much time trying to find some core. Used in moderation, as a support for action in the real world, I doubt there are any risks.

I find that the parts are fairly aligned if you depolarize them, so there is rarely a need to prioritize. If a part sounds like something you don't want to have influence your life, it is probably just upset lol.

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Thank you for writing this! IFS reminded me quite a lot about jungian psychology and the idea of archetypes that play in our subconscious. There is even the practice of active imagination as a way of "talking" with one of the archetypes to better understand and integrate it

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Yes, that is one of the precursors! I find Jung less useful because he presupposes how the archetypes look, whereas IFS is more adaptive to the individual since you get to apply your own creativity. There is also a deeper understanding of interpersonal dynamics, borrowed from the family therapy tradtion of the 1960s-80s, which provides many useful tools for dealing with internal conflict and polarization, whereas Jung is more limited in easy practical tools.

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Do either of you have good recommendations on the topic, that delves into more of the recent developments and applications over the historical?

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I've only read Barry Schwartz' Internal Family Systems Therapy - which gives a good theoretical overview and the basics of how you do it.

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